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by shangc1107
Wed May 20, 2020 5:40 pm
Forum: Discussions
Topic: Drinking Dreams
Replies: 14
Views: 1809

Re: Drinking Dreams

Ha! I'm so glad this thread popped back up! I want to share my dream for last night! Awful! I dreamed that my home group basically told me that I was supposed to chair this meeting and close everything up at the church every night. I couldn't get the script right, couldn't start on time, went over, ...
by shangc1107
Tue May 05, 2020 7:48 am
Forum: Discussions
Topic: Drinking Dreams
Replies: 14
Views: 1809

Re: Drinking Dreams

Hey Paige, When I entered sobriety, I had drinking dreams ALL the time. Every night. I really didn't like it :( . That is one thing I did ask my HP to please help with and they did ease up. It got to where I would have them weekly, then monthly...you get the idea. As I was growing away from the obse...
by shangc1107
Fri May 01, 2020 6:38 pm
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: How many of us are out there?
Replies: 12
Views: 855

Re: How many of us are out there?

Hey Boppie, Welcome to the forums! I’ve really enjoyed using this platform as a new recovery tool, aka a substitute for my old tool: alcohol. Congratulations on 29 days! It gets easier when you ask a fellow alcoholic to take you through the Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. Are you attending AA ...
by shangc1107
Thu Apr 30, 2020 8:16 pm
Forum: Our Friends and Families
Topic: Cheating Husband Sober 60 Days Lying About Affairs
Replies: 7
Views: 1321

Re: Cheating Husband Sober 60 Days Lying About Affairs

Hi Ernstfortin, Reading your story, I can really identify with your emotions. I can smile a bit too. I’m a double winner—I qualify for al-anon and alcoholics anonymous. It felt so much like my husband’s problems were my problems. When I heard anything different, it just didn’t make sense! The bottom...
by shangc1107
Tue Apr 28, 2020 6:25 am
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: Not at rock bottom ..but asking questions
Replies: 42
Views: 2218

Re: Not at rock bottom ..but asking questions

Hey Lilli, Yes, I really identify with the feeling of being no stranger to secrets. For me, I thought it was normal to not be completely honest with others, including my immediate family. It’s a lonely life in retrospect, but that was all I knew before joining Alcoholics Anonymous. Once I began shar...
by shangc1107
Fri Apr 24, 2020 3:45 pm
Forum: A.A. Birthdays!
Topic: April 12, 1996
Replies: 8
Views: 620

Re: April 12, 1996

Amazing! Thanks for sharing!!
by shangc1107
Thu Apr 23, 2020 8:17 am
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: Not at rock bottom ..but asking questions
Replies: 42
Views: 2218

Re: Not at rock bottom ..but asking questions

Hey Lillibet, Thanks for the question and welcome! Looking back on my active alcoholism, my low bottoms resulted because of my obsession with alcohol. I thought about alcohol ALL the time, non-stop; 100% my brain’s goal was to get alcohol. With that going, I could not function and be responsible for...
by shangc1107
Thu Apr 23, 2020 7:49 am
Forum: Sponsorship
Topic: How do I help my atheist sponsee?
Replies: 45
Views: 11310

Re: How do I help my atheist sponsee?

i suggest having him, and yourself,too, read the chapter,"we agnostics." if the sponsee is praying every morning and night, there is some HP being prayed to. it doesnt have to be the same HP you have or same perception- just as long as it makes sense to him. As an atheist I find this chapter to be ...
by shangc1107
Wed Apr 22, 2020 6:27 am
Forum: Discussions
Topic: God/Higher Power
Replies: 82
Views: 7752

Re: God/Higher Power

I am in my 14th week of sobriety. I don't not attribute any of it to a higher power. The concept still baffles me. I am told that the HP doesn't need to be GOD, that it can be anything, your AA group, the universe, even a door knob. Looking at the steps I don't see how this is possible. 5. Admitted...
by shangc1107
Mon Apr 20, 2020 4:39 pm
Forum: Discussions
Topic: Is the BB the only AA way?
Replies: 25
Views: 1501

Re: Is the BB the only AA way?

PaigeB wrote:
Sun Apr 19, 2020 11:54 am
FYI: Urban legend or truth... The Big Book is the book most often stolen (not returned) from public libraries?
I'm going with Urban Legend LOL!
by shangc1107
Mon Apr 20, 2020 5:17 am
Forum: Discussions
Topic: Such Unfortunates
Replies: 42
Views: 2399

Re: Such Unfortunates

I have read the BB cover to cover several times including studying for the steps with my sponsor and in a BB study at my home group. I don't find any of it inspirational or comforting. I smiled a bit when I read this, because I definitely got in moods like this (still do). Honestly, I think what ma...
by shangc1107
Sun Apr 19, 2020 4:18 am
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: New to eAA
Replies: 5
Views: 478

Re: New to eAA

Hi Stewardess, Welcome! We are here and happy to have you here! When you mentioned wine, it made me think of one of my rationales when I was trying to control/justify my drinking. I typically drank mixed drinks or beer, but went through a stage of drinking wine. Why? Well, Jesus drank wine. If Jesus...
by shangc1107
Wed Apr 15, 2020 5:45 pm
Forum: But We Aren't a Glum Lot ...
Topic: Higher Service
Replies: 6
Views: 1678

Re: Higher Service

That is hilarious! I love it! =biggrin :lol: :lol: =biggrin
by shangc1107
Tue Apr 14, 2020 5:53 pm
Forum: Discussions
Topic: 7 years sober
Replies: 8
Views: 635

Re: 7 years sober

Congratulations Medic! Did it fly by?
by shangc1107
Sat Apr 11, 2020 7:57 pm
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: Online meetings any good for a noob?
Replies: 9
Views: 679

Re: Online meetings any good for a noob?

I am terrified of saying anything though so I'll prob just say hi and then lurk. Hi Soph! This made me smile! :D So great to hear back from you and that you got into a meeting. I got into the virtual side of things because of the COVID-19 and I am really starting to like it. It's very convenient ha...