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by Boiledowl
Sun Sep 16, 2018 5:42 am
Forum: If It Doesn't Fit Anywhere Else
Topic: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms
Replies: 34
Views: 18036

Re: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms

Well Blue Moon you can carry the message,
I’ll choose the more important demonstration of these
principles in my home occupation and affairs.
Best of luck all. Thanks.
by Boiledowl
Sun Sep 16, 2018 4:24 am
Forum: If It Doesn't Fit Anywhere Else
Topic: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms
Replies: 34
Views: 18036

Re: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms

[/quote] It's contingent upon being spiritually fit, which isn't quite the same as talking to God. IMO it's also contingent upon not forgetting where we came from. There's no way of proving this, but I suspect that's why a lot of relapses happen.[/quote] In my experience No God in MY life= No spirit...
by Boiledowl
Wed Sep 12, 2018 9:07 pm
Forum: If It Doesn't Fit Anywhere Else
Topic: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms
Replies: 34
Views: 18036

Re: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms

Thanks for all the replies folks. Just an update. Still have not gone back to the rooms. Just celebrated 4 years sober, one day at a time, in a row, on September 10. I am still seeing the same girl and truth be told this whole thing being set in motion may be the best thing that could have happened ...
by Boiledowl
Thu Aug 03, 2017 3:44 am
Forum: A.A. Birthdays!
Topic: Thanks to You!
Replies: 7
Views: 4089

Re: Thanks to You!

Congratulations on 8 years of sobriety!
by Boiledowl
Thu Aug 03, 2017 3:40 am
Forum: If It Doesn't Fit Anywhere Else
Topic: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms
Replies: 34
Views: 18036

Re: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms

I am having a hard time seeing where I owe an amends.
To clarify, once this started happening, I left
Alcoholics Anonymous. No confrontations,
verbal or otherwise. I just vanished from the
rooms. I'll take a closer look I guess.
by Boiledowl
Tue Aug 01, 2017 8:01 pm
Forum: If It Doesn't Fit Anywhere Else
Topic: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms
Replies: 34
Views: 18036

Re: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms

Just lost a long reply duebto my giant
uncoordinated fingers. Short version, yes I've
inventoried the fears, followed book directions
yadda yadda yadda. Not outgrowing these fears
as quickly as I'd like. And that's on me.

I'd like to thank everyone again. You guys are great.
by Boiledowl
Mon Jul 31, 2017 12:33 pm
Forum: If It Doesn't Fit Anywhere Else
Topic: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms
Replies: 34
Views: 18036

Re: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms

I've done at 4&5 on the resentments towards these particular individuals ( tenth step). I haven't injured them in any way, haven't even run them down verbally, so there is no need for any amends. This started happening and I just bailed on AA. As far as 6 and 7, I ask but maybe my willingness isn't ...
by Boiledowl
Sun Jul 30, 2017 3:32 pm
Forum: A.A. Birthdays!
Topic: one year sober
Replies: 5
Views: 2733

Re: one year sober

Congratulations on one year of continuous sobriety, one day at a time, in a row
by Boiledowl
Sat Jul 29, 2017 8:28 am
Forum: If It Doesn't Fit Anywhere Else
Topic: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms
Replies: 34
Views: 18036

Re: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms

Could it be because of ur insecurity that you may lose her? Almost definitely. As for the movies in my head, I'm like Steven Spielberg. Or Wes Craven, because it's a horror show in there sometimes regarding this situation. I appreciate the feedback and responses from everyone. Thank you very much.
by Boiledowl
Fri Jul 28, 2017 6:15 pm
Forum: If It Doesn't Fit Anywhere Else
Topic: Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms
Replies: 34
Views: 18036

Consumed by resentments...out of the rooms

Hi. I'm a new member this is my first post here. I've been sober 34 months, have done the steps twice out of the book with a sponsor. I have an issue with a few men in a group near home that I have allowed to drive me out of the rooms. I was wondering if anybody has experience in a similar way and w...
by Boiledowl
Wed Jul 26, 2017 11:42 am
Forum: Guest Book
Topic: New Member...
Replies: 4
Views: 3673

Re: New Member...

Appreciate the welcomes. Thank you for that.
I'm not currently attending f2f meetings due
to some personalities that I am putting way
before principles. The problem is mine.
Just haven't ironed this out yet.
by Boiledowl
Tue Jul 25, 2017 6:31 pm
Forum: Guest Book
Topic: New Member...
Replies: 4
Views: 3673

New Member...

Hello! I've been looking at this site for a while and today I finally decided to join.
I'm an alcoholic from the Boston area (north shore.). My sobriety date is 9/10/2014.
Grateful to be here and look forward to chatting with you all.
There seems to be some good recovery in here. Thanks.